Author Archives : Barbara Mays

Resolveable


So here we are, ready and willing to have ‘the talk’.  Which is no small thing.  We definately could dodge your way out of this moment but we won’t.   We’re deciding to brave it – to see this as an opportunity to take this issue off our plate.  And although we may have all kinds of anxiety about having…

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Hack Into Procrastination By Doing It Now


There’s plenty of excuses why we procrastinate. But here’s the thing, the problem with excuses is that there are some REALLY good ones to use.  Instead of using another great excuse to procrastinate, let’s consider ways to do what needs to get done.  Here’s 9 ways to stop procrastinating:  Ask yourself, “Is what I’m doing right now more important than…

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Self Reflection


When we PLAN to do our personal best, we have an enormous potential to achieve it!  A Better Version of Ourselves  In, The Elephant in the Room Part 1: Can We Talk? We landed on the decision to sit down to face the issue.  In part 2, we face ourselves. Before having a discussion with anyone else, let’s gain clarity…

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Can We Talk?


Ever asked yourself how the elephant got in?  Or, what was ‘that’ certain something that invited this BIG obvious obstacle, we call THE ELEPHANT, to squeeze in the room?  Which by the way, noticeably makes itself at home and is more noticeably unaddressed, causing you to casually angle around it and go about your day.  Days go by until they are too numerous to count, and it’s still there – hugely…

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