Author Archives : Barbara Mays

THE COURAGE TO LOVE: Love Is


Intro: Setting the Scene  It’s a bright balmy, Saturday afternoon. You’re on a date at the park and it is shaping up to be another great date like the last several you’ve had.   Lots of people are at the park today – living it up – without a care in the world. There are plenty of picnic tables spread with food…

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THE COURAGE TO LOVE: Are You Ready?


Are you ready to meet your soulmate – the ideal person that you feel is suited just right for you? What does your soulmate look like?   Whether you have visuals of this person in your head or on a list somewhere, you’re going to want to recognize this person, when you meet them in real life. Unless you already met and discover that you’re…

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THE COURAGE TO LOVE: Giving From a Good Place


Valentine’s Day is almost here!  I’m kind of not liking that the celebration of LOVE only gets one day, but I’ll take it.  Valentine’s Day can be anytime we want, right?  The whole lead up to this day is pretty amazing .  And although there’s plenty of jewelry, flowers, chocolates and all kinds of cutesy heart-shaped stuff reminding us that we get to…

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Episode 9: Mentorship


We can all use some help becoming the best version of ourselves and mentorship does just that.  Mentorship is influence – great mentors give us the ability to SEE further and REACH further.  Isaac Newton said, “If I have seen further than others, it is by standing upon the shoulders of giants.”  In this episode Barbara and Ciji unpack some…

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